Before you meet
- Chat first and have a video call to confirm they are who they say they are.
- Don’t share your address, bank details or documents.
- Be wary if someone asks you for money, gifts or to leave the app quickly. Report it.
- Look the person up and check whether they have the verified badge.
On the day of the date
- Meet in a public, busy place that’s accessible for you. Check the entrance, accessible restroom or transport beforehand.
- Tell someone you trust where you’ll be. If you have a support person, you can let them know from the app.
- Plan how you get there and how you get home yourself.
- If something doesn’t feel right, you can leave. You don’t owe anyone anything.
Respect for disability
On Udolly, disability is part of a person, not what defines them. We don’t tolerate fetishization, invasive questions about someone’s body or health without trust, or condescending behavior. If it happens to you, report it.
Community guidelines
- Be yourself: real photos and real details.
- Treat others the way you want to be treated.
- Ask for consent before sending intimate photos or starting a video call.
- No money requests, sales or promotions.
- Adults 18+ only.
Breaking them can lead to your account being suspended. More details in the terms and conditions.
If you need help
If you’re in danger right now, call 911.
If you’re experiencing domestic or dating violence in the U.S., you can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788. It’s free, confidential and available 24/7.